Wedding Ritual

The modern wedding ritual

A wedding ritual is a symbolic moment during your celebrant-led ceremony. In our ritual, you stamp your own words into four metal tags with a hammer and letter stamps: a promise, your date or a word only the two of you understand. Then you hang the tags on your personalised wall together while your guests watch. Afterwards, it takes a permanent place in your home. For stamping, you receive our rental kit. The wall and tags are yours to keep; only the rental kit goes back to us after the wedding.

Four tags for your words

You can share the four tags however you like: two for the two of you and two for your witnesses, who stamp their wishes for you. Or you stamp all four together. Not sure yet what to stamp? Under “Care & Tips” you will find questions your celebrant can ask during the ritual.

Date reservation

Once you complete your order, the date of your ceremony is automatically reserved for you. You enter the date in the basket. The rental kit is then confirmed for your day.

Wall

Available in white MDF (RAL 9016), anthracite MDF (RAL 7016) or solid oak, 20 × 20 cm, with space for four tags. The wall comes fitted with matching nails in the colour of your tags.

Tags

Aluminium (silver), copper (rose gold) or brass (gold), approx. 4 × 4 cm. Specially treated so they keep their matte sheen and do not tarnish. In addition to the four tags for your wall, we include four more free of charge as a reserve for your ritual. So you receive eight tags in total.

Personalisation (optional)

You choose your text directly in the configurator, for example your names or your date. It sits on one line on the wall, and you see it straight away in the live preview. The preview is a guide: the size and position of the lettering on the finished product may vary slightly depending on the length of your personalisation. If you upload your own font as a TTF file, we assume you are allowed to use it for private purposes.

Delivery & shipping

Your order is a complete package of wall, tags and rental kit. Shipping within Germany is free. Information on other countries can be found under Shipping & delivery.

Your order arrives in two parcels:

Express shipping

Need your Wedding Ritual sooner? No problem: for a surcharge, we send it by express.

Returning the rental kit

For returns within Germany, we email you a free DHL return label. Please drop the rental kit off at DHL no later than the third working day after your ceremony, so it can travel on to the next celebration in time. If you need it longer, just send us an email.

Our rental kit

Our rental kit is made of high-quality, carefully matched components. Please keep it dry, and note that we need every part back complete.

Care instructions

Light marks on the wall can be removed with a damp cloth. Dust the tags gently. If something breaks or goes missing, just let us know via our form Report damage.

Tips for your Wedding Ritual

1. Place the wall and the rental kit on a small table right next to you.
2. The stamping block sits felt side down, with the steel surface facing up.
3. Try out your words on one of the reserve tags first. Short words look best.
4. Agree on the ritual with your celebrant. Before each tag, they can ask a question that you answer with one word.
5. After the ceremony, pack everything into the case and drop the rental kit off at DHL no later than the third working day. You will receive the return label by email directly from DHL.

Questions for the two of you

• Which word comes to mind first when you think of the person by your side?
• What do you promise the person by your side, in one word?
• Which word describes the two of you best?
• What should never be missing in your home?

Questions for your witnesses

• What do you wish the two of them for their future?
• What is the first thing you think of when you see the two of them together?
• Which word suits their love?
• What should the two of them never forget?